Good Day everyone,
I came across this wonderful article by Hillis Pugh ~ The message he sends regarding Soul Mates has come to me at a time when I have questioned exactly what a soul mate is and who and why they are even a soul mate. His explanation and expansion upon the "Soul Mate" concept is brilliant. I wanted to share.....
Peace Love and light, Kimberly
When
we think of Soul Mates, we usually think of the one person/soul that is meant
for us to spend the rest of our life with. We search endlessly for this one
soul, and when we find a soul matching our vibration, we feel and know they are
"the one". The challenge most of us have is when we find "the
one", we (self) create an image or level of expectation, while we pour all
we have into the cultivating the relationship forming a new bond. To further
complicate our own life is when the relationship comes to an end and we play
the victim role. What we fail to see immediately is the person who recently
exited our life taught a valuable life lesson. The life lesson is not observed
until we release the heightened emotions of the human experience. Remember
we are Souls first, Humans second. Understand we chose to come here during
this time for our Soul to evolve to be our Best Self, our Higher Self. The
question now becomes how do we see our Soul Mate for who they really are to
grow together?
To
find our Soul Mate, we first must understand and know we have a Soul Group.
This group of souls made an agreement with one another, to play a part in each
other's life. The role played by each soul is to help one another grow and
evolve. Immediately when a Soul Group is thought of, the role of family comes
to mind. Our human family is the most challenging role played. Members of our
Soul Group took on the role of the human family, because they are able teach us
lessons other souls are unable too yet. As we go through our human development
and soul awaking, the family is there to guide us every step of the way. Yet
there are moments or extended periods where the soul(s) playing the family role
get caught up in the "role" and forget their Soul is guiding us, not
a “role”. There comes a time when each soul has to release the role chosen and
allow the guided soul to grow. When the soul group member forgets their purpose
and continues in the role played, this
can result in the soul retaining unexpressed emotions, guilt,
resentment, or other like emotions. When this is recognized by other members of
the soul group, we are filled with a longing, a desire to help this soul
remember who they truly are. We have to pour loving energy over them and accept
them as they are, so they know they are loved.
However,
our human family is not the extent of our Soul Group. Our dearest friends are a
part of the group. They play different roles at different times. They are often
advisers and not like guides or teachers like our family. This is one reason
why or family is dear to us, because they are teachers, guides and sometimes
guardians of our life. The role of adviser is a key role in our life. When we
fail to listen to our intuition or second guess self, we seek outside council.
Our friends are a trusted panel of knowledge. The knowledge they learned about
us over the years is a reflection of who were are or evolved from. With the
knowledge gained about us, our friends can assist us in making informed
decisions. We also have to remember, not everyone who enters our life will
always be there and not everyone a part of our life is a part of our Soul
Group.
As
stated earlier, we have to remember we are Souls first. This means we are
loving and kind Beings of Light. Those who enter our lives are meant to come in
for a reason and for however long. We allow other Souls to enter and exit our
life once the agreement is filled, yet there will be souls who are not fully
awake or aware as the others and may soulfully forget about the agreement made.
This can cause a level of hurt to the soul express in a human way. We have to
learn to release this disappointment on a soul level. As souls, we will have to
have clarity about self and the roles others play in our life. Everyone
entering our life is for a reason. The reason is only for self to know.
Our
search for our Soul Mate is a tireless one, when expressed in human value. As
humans we date, spend time with various people matching our vibration at that
time in our life, meaning once our vibration changes so do the people, with
exceptions. The exceptions would be family and closest friends, those souls
that have been with you for many lifetimes. We have more than one Soul Mate,
but there is a Primary Soul Mate. The Primary Soul Mate plays a pivotal role in
your life and you meet one another when the timing is divinely orchestrated.
The Primary Soul Mate is a soul that has been with you in every life and may
not always be your Spouse in each life. Your Primary Soul Mate can be your
mother, father, brother, sister, close relative, friend or spouse. We have to
love the other members of our Soul Group just as we love our Soul Mates, and
Primary Soul Mate.
Each
Soul Mate teaches us a lesson to grow and be our Best Self, our Higher Self.
Without our Soul Mates we would be lost on Earth. They make it easier for us to
navigate through life. They help us in many ways when we are open to receiving
the lesson for self to grow and then in turn share our truth with the rest of
the world. We are all connected and our Soul Mates help to keep us grounded
while evolving.
Be
thankful this day and everyday for the lessons taught to us by our Soul Mates.
Be
thankful this day and everyday for the miracles come to us from being open to
love from our Soul Groups.
Be
thankful this day and everyday to honor the love and truth coming from our Soul
Mates and Groups allowing us to be who we truly are.
Impressionable
Soul
Knowing
my energy attracts and repels what's desired
All
matter and non-matter
All
life and once was living
Expanding
energy leaves traces of where I've been
An
impression and imprint of other souls I know
Where
do you find me
Do
you recognize an ever morphing entity
The
core never changes
The
surface is a cover to mask the signal
A
desire for solitude
Peace
is of the soul
In
stillness all is seen
All
is heard
Beckoning
Transmitting
thoughts energy emotions desires
What
is this sensation felt
I'm
open
I
travel great distances as light
I
am light
Being
a witness from a call answered
I
am present
Connected
from the day of birth
The
first birth a choice made and continued for lifetimes
I
know you
You
and you and we know me
A
glimpse
A
thought
A
premonition imprinted upon me
Guide
me to a place only the soul knows why
Once
fulfilled joy takes over then released
Fantasized
Crystallized
Energized
Leaving
a mark
Leaving
a note
A
symbol
A
sign
We
were here and we all do matters
Author, Hillis
Pugh
Written by Hillis Pugh aka PHantasm. http://www.thankyouthursday.blogspot.com/